You’re lacking Intimacy & Strategy
Want to know why I like to start with money in our transformational process? Because it’s easy to move.
Let me reframe this for you for a moment: if you wanted to manifest a live elephant (I KNOW YOU COULD DO IT but) think of all the people & opportunities that’d have to fall into line for this elephant to appear.
An elephant would have to be in your town or we’d have to get you to a town that had an elephant. This could involve an airplane, a boat, who knows! There'd have to be some sort of event that allows elephants and people to be together in a space. Or, there’d have to be an elephant that escaped and arrived into your space. OR you’d have to make friends with someone working intimately with elephants that decides they like you enough to let you touch their elephant.
All totally doable, I’ve seen crazier desires come to fruition— but your logical mind would be going WILD trying to let yourself trust that you could attract an elephant.
Now let’s chat money. How could money find a way to you… this afternoon?
The IRS could send you an unexpected refund (happened to me).
You could win on a scratch ticket.
Your grandma could send you a $10 to say she’s thinking about you.
You could find a $5 bill in the dryer.
Your paycheck may come early because of a bug in the system (happened to me).
A friend could offer to help you with a service that would otherwise cost you money.
You couple stumble upon a $20 bill in the street.
Now admit it: MONEY IS EASY TO MOVE AND YOU’RE WILLING TO BELIEVE IT. And even though the truth is that ALL THINGS are easy to move, your subconscious has to be on the same page.
Did you know your subconscious mind is wired like a little computer? And it’s programmed to a specific outcome based on your past experiences and memories? And just like a computer, it can’t ‘think’ on it’s own, it just works to fulfill the desired outcome?
So, say your (unintentional) wiring points you to: I can’t do this, I am not enough, I don’t know enough, I’ll never have enough…
your subconscious will employ all memories, thoughts, beliefs, impulses and actions to MAKE SURE you reach that exact destination!
Now to you: lack of intimacy and strategy
You’re here because you took a little quiz online to help you with one of the most important questions in the human experience— how can I feel more free & safe in my life?
Without this quiz I’d be able to tell you that you’re lacking two of the most important, integral energies to all successful lives: deeper intimacy with the things that are important to you and a container (or strategy!) to hold those important things.
BUT, you’ve been doubly tagged with this diagnosis based on the answers you’ve provided in the quiz.
Here’s how to move through this:
It’s time to take up more space in the important areas of you life. Taking up space doesn’t necessarily mean more time, action or money— it usually means more intentionality, presence, gratitude and boundaries.
When we’re unhappy with an area of our lives it usually means we are not present and intentional enough with what is AND we don’t have strong enough boundaries to maintain the sacredness of the space.
Let me guess: you’re always in a hurry, you’re always on to the next thing, you’re always partially in a state of worry.
So, I ask:
How can you be more present with your money and money desires?
How can you be more grateful for your current money?
How can you create more structure and strategy with your money and money desires?
Take some time to answer these questions— and then trust the answers that come through.
Guidance just for you:
Episode 21: Your thoughts are becoming things whether you like it or not
Episode 25: It’s an Intimacy Issue
Ready to ditch the anxiety, confusion & self-doubt?
I can teach you how to:
set & achieve your worthwhile desires
rewire your subconscious to finally trust & act in accordance to with your greatest self
improve your self image
receive the wealth waiting for you