You’re not supported by your community
Want to know why I like to start with money in our transformational process? Because it’s easy to move.
Let me reframe this for you for a moment: if you wanted to manifest a live elephant (I KNOW YOU COULD DO IT but) think of all the people & opportunities that’d have to fall into line for this elephant to appear.
An elephant would have to be in your town or we’d have to get you to a town that had an elephant. This could involve an airplane, a boat, who knows! There'd have to be some sort of event that allows elephants and people to be together in a space. Or, there’d have to be an elephant that escaped and arrived into your space. OR you’d have to make friends with someone working intimately with elephants that decides they like you enough to let you touch their elephant.
All totally doable, I’ve seen crazier desires come to fruition— but your logical mind would be going WILD trying to let yourself trust that you could attract an elephant.
Now let’s chat money. How could money find a way to you… this afternoon?
The IRS could send you an unexpected refund (happened to me).
You could win on a scratch ticket.
Your grandma could send you a $10 to say she’s thinking about you.
You could find a $5 bill in the dryer.
Your paycheck may come early because of a bug in the system (happened to me).
A friend could offer to help you with a service that would otherwise have cost you money.
You couple stumble upon a $20 bill in the street.
Now admit it: MONEY IS EASY TO MOVE AND YOU’RE WILLING TO BELIEVE IT. And even though the truth is that ALL THINGS are easy to move, your subconscious has to be on the same page.
Did you know your subconscious mind is wired like a little computer? And it’s programmed to a specific outcome based on your past experiences and memories? And just like a computer, it can’t ‘think’ on it’s own, it just works to fulfill the desired outcome that you’ve set.
So, say your (unintentional) wiring points you to: I can’t do this, I am not enough, I don’t know enough, I’ll never have enough…
your subconscious will employ all memories, thoughts, beliefs, impulses and actions to MAKE SURE you reach that exact destination!
Now to you: up-leveling your community
You’re here because you took a little quiz online to help you with one of the most important questions in the human experience— how can I feel more free & safe in my life?
Without this quiz I’d be able to tell you that you’re lacking two of the most important, integral energies to all successful lives: deeper intimacy with the things that are important to you and a container (or strategy!) to allow these important things to thrive.
Now take a mental look around at the community that surrounds you. Based on your answers to the quiz I’m going to guess you’ve outgrown your crew or you’re trying to do this human thing alone.
Here’s how to move through this:
You know that subconscious mind process I described? Well it’s all based on your internal self-image. Whatever you see in your mind’s eye as a representation for who you are sets the standard for who and what you’ll attract into your life.
The friends you keep with mirror this self-image. If you think you’re not enough, you’ll have friends who have the same insecurity. If you think you’ll always be broke, you’ll have friends who believe that too.
BUT it doesn’t end there— just as your self-image determines your capacity for friendship, your friendships continue to confirm your self-image is correct.
Now you’re stuck in a suck cycle.
Do you need to ditch all friends that aren’t Positive Polly? Of course not. Do you need to make sure you’re spending time with other that are thinking, sharing and loving in a bigger capacity than you if you want to grow? YES.
If you’re someone who has cut out toxic friendships and has found themselves to be alone because ‘it’s easier’ to do life alone, I’m going to save you the years of struggle (I did it already, take my word for it): You need to support to grow. You need support to continue to grow.
So, I ask:
Does your current community inspire you or hinder you?
Do you have support for ‘putting out fires’ and for ‘good times’?
Who in your network could you reach out to in attempts to bring more positivity & support into your life?
Take some time to answer these questions— and then trust the answers that come through.
Guidance just for you:
Episode 3: The secret sauce to your up-level (before shit hits the fan)
Episode 5: Get in the space
Ready to ditch the anxiety, confusion & self-doubt?
I can teach you how to:
set & achieve your worthwhile desires
rewire your subconscious to finally trust & act in accordance to with your greatest self
improve your self image
receive the wealth waiting for you